I have a big problem with asyncore_fix_refused.patch  - it assumes that a 
dispatcher has a socket attribute, which can be used with t getsockopt(). 
This is true in the default dispatcher class implemented in asyncore, but 
wont work with file_dispatcher, or 3rd party dispatcher class.

The framework should let you drop in your dispatcher class, that will 
implement a minimal interface - handle_x_event, writable, readable etc.

What are the issues on Windows with asyncore-handle-connect-event-3.patch 
on Windows?