I have noticed the following on Linux too:
```
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/config/custom_components/kef_custom/aiokef.py", line 327, in _disconnect
    await self._writer.wait_closed()
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.7/asyncio/streams.py", line 323, in wait_closed
    await self._protocol._closed
  File "/config/custom_components/kef_custom/aiokef.py", line 299, in _send_message
    await self._writer.drain()
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.7/asyncio/streams.py", line 339, in drain
    raise exc
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.7/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 814, in _read_ready__data_received
    data = self._sock.recv(self.max_size)
ConnectionResetError: [Errno 104] Connection reset by peer
```
after which every invocation of `await asyncio.open_connection` fails with `ConnectionRefusedError` until I restart the entire Python process.

IIUC, just ignoring the exception will not be enough.

This issue is about the `ProactorEventLoop` for Windows specifically, however, my process uses the default event loop on Linux.