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1) Basically, you lose. If you don't want to build a module
as a shared library, you can build it statically, through
Modules/Setup. If you absolutely don't want to build a
module at all, you edit setup.py, and modify
disabled_module_list. If you don't want to edit
disabled_module_list, you build the module, and delete it
when done.

2) Using /usr/local/lib could be replaced, but I would
consider this out of scope of this change. Feel free to
submit a separate patch. Make sure that the alternative
patch manages to pick up shared libraries in all cases where
it finds them today.

3) 'cvs annotate' reveals that this was added in setup.py
1.100. 'cvs log' reveals that this was added in response to
python.org/sf/589427, where the Debian maintainer complains
that /usr/include is added to the list of -I options, even
though the compiler already has /usr/include in its search list.